Friday, July 31, 2009

To Be single or not to be be single

Well I have notice through out my 33 and 1/2 years that being single sucks and well has its Pros. I have been in relationships that have drove me nuts in my past. But i have come to accept that finding the right person proves harder than expected due to me being a free spirit. I am the type who wont say no to people for one reason or another BUT i have been taken advantage of through out my life. so when i get with a girl she gets mad when i am still friends with my ex girlfriends I mean its not my fault i have a kind heart and will sit and talk to a girl about what is going on in their lifes. This is a problem with most girls since I have noticed if i don't put the girl first she gets mad.

Now one more thing that gets me is when people learn the situation with my daughter they get all giddy with me BUT when i do things for my kid or they see me putting her before their needs they get jealous or mad about and question my actions. Hell she is my world and with me not being her Biological father but I am her daddy it makes it hard on me to tell her no BUT she minds me so that is why i spoil her the way i do. I raise her alone she Does see her mother and her mother has gone through some things,she is a better person now and i have respect for her getting away to get things together for her self.

Sorry for the rant just felt the need too talk

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